MY JOURNAL is a collection of storytelling articles that highlight my journey as a businesswoman and independent agent. I share personal stories and life lessons, as well as insights into business, branding, real estate, investing, and building a career that gives you the freedom to live a life you love.
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How To Win Clients When You’re The Underdog
Starting out in real estate, business, or any career when you're fresh faced is challenging to say the least. Without runs on the board, how do you prove to a potential client that You are the best choice for them? This post explains how I played the Underdog card to my advantage when I was the new kid on the real estate block, and gives you 4 concepts to adopt to start attracting and winning business now.
What We Can Learn From The Seasons Of Life
TRIGGER WARNING! If you’ve ever had to say goodbye to a beloved pet, this will hit home. As they say, there are many seasons in this life. This was one of the hardest for me. — here’s what I learned.
Managing Your Energy As An Introvert
When we work in a fast-paced people industry like real estate, managing our energy so we’re always showing up as the best version of ourselves can be tricky, especially if you’re introverted. This is how I approach it.
Is Your Fashion Sense Turning Clients Off?
What we wear matters. Whether we like it or not, clients are judging us on how we present and making a split second often unconscious decision about whether they want to do business with us or not. Here’s how I play the style card to send the right impression.
An Insight Into My Overseas Client Base
How I go about managing international relationships and ways you can break into a market abroad.
The Events That Led Me To Start My Buyer’s Agency Business
This is a very personal insight into how it all came about and what motivated me to go out on my own as an independent agent.
Real Estate and the GCI Obsession
For as long as I have worked in real estate, our industry’s obsession with GCI or gross commissions earned has irked me. Why is it that to be considered a success in real estate, one has to close the most deals at the highest values? It’s time we recognise ethics and client satisfaction just as much as we validate earnings.
Why The Top Performers Focus On Mindset
Why is it that some of us reach those career milestones somewhat effortlessly whilst others struggle for years trying to make a go of it. The answer - Mindset. This post shares the particular challenge I had when I transitioned from Seller’s Agent to Buyer’s Agent and what I needed to do in order to make it a long-term success.
Are Your Posts Too Braggy?
The social media sugar hit you get from a good brag-post can be intoxicating but are we doing unrepairable damage to our personal brand just to feel a fleeting moment of validation? This post explores ways we as agents can better position ourselves online to strike the right balance between brag and genuine humble success.
When You Stop Concentrating On The Competition, This Happens
They say real estate is one of the most competitive industries in the world of business. I’ll admit, I’ve witnessed the bitchiness, the underhanded play, the backstabbing. But does it really have to be this way? It is only when we learn to focus on our own game that we can progress to new heights of self-satisfaction in our career journey.
The Greatest Real Estate Career Myth Uncovered
Are you afraid of losing momentum if you take time off? We all know prioritising our health is essential but for me, the thought of putting my career in second place was a non-option - until I was forced to. This is a story about the impact of taking a whole two months off real estate.
How My Career Finally Kicked After I Found This One Thing
Finding clarity in your career is no easy task. For me (and most professionals) it is a never ending journey of self-discovery and reflection. Learning to accept the things you do like, and those you don’t, and then having the courage to course-correct where you need to in order to find that state of flow can take years. This is how I realised I’d been playing the wrong side of the real estate fence for way too long.
The Rise And Fall Of The Boys’ Club
As a 5 ft woman of asian descent, I accepted I was always going to have a target placed on my head for mistreatment, bullying and condescending behaviour in the workplace, and so it came as no surprise when men in the industry “tried it on” as I like to put it. Here’s how I learned to manage it.
The Not-So-Sexy Side Of Real Estate
When I was 19, I was fortunate to meet a person who became one of my greatest mentors in property. In this post I share one critical piece of advice he gave me that led to one of the best buying decisions I’ve ever made. The truth is, despite all the success stories you hear about people making big money in property, few actually get it right, and sadly there are many more tales of distress. You just don’t hear about them. I’m about to spill the beans on Why?
THE JOY OF 100%: to join a franchise or go solo?
Do you align with a franchise group or do you go out on your own as a solo independent operator? For me, this decision was a no-brainer, but before you make the life-changing move, consider your options carefully. There are pros and cons on both sides of the fence and this post will explain how I came to make my decision (3 times).